Your friends have probably given you sex advice, you may have Googled around for "hot tips," or maybe you even get your sex advice standing in line at the grocery store flipping through magazines. Spoiler alert: You can ignore most of what you've heard.
There is a lot of advice out there, and some good books about how to have better sex. Some people look for their pointers in pornography, or what they call their "online sexual education." But the truth is that most of the sex in movies, porn and in magazine articles is not actually great sex. Read more
Monday, February 2, 2015
Sex therapist Tammy Nelson reveals the five keys to great sex that apply to anyone.
Monday, January 26, 2015
If you want to have the best sex possible, ditch these seven common mistakes.
By now, you probably have your own personal list of $ex dos and don'ts, from the basic (do use protection) to the crazy specific (don't be afraid keep socks on so you don't wind up too cold to orgasm, because that can totally get in the way, okay?). But even if you consider yourself savvy, there are some faux pas that almost everyone is guilty of every once in a while. Check out these common don'ts you may have committed—and vow to ditch them for good. Read more
Friday, January 9, 2015
Friday, January 2, 2015
Initiating sex when you're a woman may seem daunting, but Jasmine R. says it's simple, and the payoff can be amazing.
Ladies, we’re kind of lucky in that we are not expected to make the first move when it comes to sex with guys. The burden tends to lie with them to get the ball rolling and we’re supposed to go along with it if we’re so inclined. This tends to be the case both in casual and more serious relationships. It’s why any time sex advice from dudes appears in ladymags the male author will yelp, “IT’S SO HOT WHEN A GIRL INITIATES THINGS.”If you’re one of those girls who waits for the dude to get things hot, you are so much better than that. Initiating can be a daunting task, but it’s actually really simple. The worst case scenario isn’t that terrible, and the potential payoff is pretty amazing. Read more
Friday, December 26, 2014
Aly Walansky says there are ten reasons why you should start out your day with a "bang."
Whether you are in a hot new relationship or have been together for a long time, sex tends to be a "when the lights go out" thing—but I maintain—and hope to convince you—that starting the day "with a bang" is the best way to go.
Deciding whether you should try and get it on early in the morning might be a tough call. After all, not many people feel sexy in the morning. Morning breath! Enough said.
Well, it turns out you probably should go the extra mile to do all these things then have fun. Why? Read more
Friday, December 19, 2014
Although missionary sex position is a favorite of many couples, it is not a position conducive to female orgasm. Anna Breslaw suggests an alternative to man-on-top for the three out of four women who can't climax in that position..
Studies have found that about 25 percent of women can come in any variation of guy-on-top. But three out of four girls at brunch agree: Cowgirl is seriously bomb. Not only will you O easier (and, dude, will you ever), but you'll feel (and look) like a boss goddess. Girl-on-top is empowering, orgasmic, assertive, orgasmic, and…did we mention orgasmic? Read more
Friday, November 28, 2014
One of the top reasons that women cheat on their partners is an unsatisfying sex life. Although women can enjoy sex with their partners without always having an orgasm, they will never be sexually satisfied unless they are enjoying orgasms regularly. If you want to sexually satisfy your woman, you have to be giving her orgasms. Fortunately, giving a woman orgasms is not rocket science. All it takes is a little knowledge of the female body and some time and patience. If you try these four tips, you can start giving your woman the orgasms she wants and needs tonight.