Friday, September 12, 2014
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
Female masturbation differs from male solo sessions in a lot of ways. (The first may dismay a lot of men.)
Your recipe for masturbation is pretty simple: A bottle of lube, an open Xtube browser, and a five-finger grip deliver results in no time flat. But women’s solo sessions are a bit more complicated.
They can’t do it wherever they want, they don’t always care about reaching orgasm, and they definitely aren’t flipping through Fifty Shades as much as you’d imagine. So how do women masturbate? Read on to discover the secrets of what happens behind closed doors. Read more
Friday, September 5, 2014
If your sex life has fallen into a rut, Emma Nicholson has seven tips to heat it back up again.
Just like many long-time married couples, my husband and I fell into a sexual black hole very quickly after our marriage seven years ago. The kids, house, our careers, the mortgage -- everything, actually -- took precedence over the passion that once consumed us when we were dating. For example, "BJ" no longer meant fellatio, but a pint of Ben & Jerry's shared while watching an Ancient Alien Theories marathon. Pretty pathetic.
Both of us longed to reconnect and enjoy intimacy once again and consulted the kids' and our schedules to nail down a good time. We would head up the stairs (while lugging laundry and toys so as not to have to make another trip), jump into bed, do the deed and then immediately jump right back up to finish the night's chores. Needless to say, despite the physical act, no one's boat was afloat at all.
The problem was not that we weren't attracted to each other anymore, but rather we were not paying attention to the most erogenous zone of all: the mind. When we were dating, we enjoyed the anticipation of seeing each other and a bit more effort was made to be sexually attractive with our words and dress. My husband recently said he remembered a special naughty night when we were dating and he still thought about it to this day. That was 10 years ago!
So, I set off to turn on my husband's mind. Here are my top tips: Read more
Friday, August 29, 2014
Sexpert Anna David makes her way to the UCLA campus to help college men with their sex and relationship questions, such how to get your partner to initiate sex, finding a good friend with benefits, and dealing with scars.
Wednesday, August 27, 2014
Forget G-spot orgasms, third-level orgasms, and cul-de-sac orgasms, say Ami Angelowicz and Amelia McDonell-Parry. These are the types of orgasms that women are actually having.
It seems like there’s always some new kind of insane, mind-blowing orgasm women are supposedly experiencing. From g-spot orgasms, to third-level orgasms, to cul-de-sac orgasms, you can’t help but feel that you’re not measuring up with your respectable pleasure quiver … or lack there of. Let’s not get so infatuated with the climaxes that Cosmo thinks we should be having that we’re ashamed of the orgasms we actually are having, or only having once in a blue, vibrating moon. These types of orgasms seem far more attainable and realistic to us: Read more
Friday, August 22, 2014
The Benefits of Vaginal Massage
So why is vaginal massage different from simply stimulating the clitoris with your hand? Tt actually has a lot more benefits for both of you because it: