THE EXPERT: Kayt Sukel, author of Dirty Minds, climaxed for science.
THE LESSON: Practice, practice, practice. "I've stimulated myself in an MRI machine, with my head bolted down, to see what the brain looks like during orgasm. I thought I might not be able to 'perform,' since I had to stay as still as possible. I mastered it at home by taping a bell to my head to monitor my movement. Pleasure takes patience and a bit of work." Read more
Friday, March 7, 2014
These 3 sex experts work to improve nooky for us all. So what are their big "Eureka!" moments?
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Veteran sex educator SecksYoda gives six tried and true sex tips on Reddit.
Dubbing herself SecksYoda, a veteran sex educator held a Reddit AMA last night so the masses could probe her embarrassingly rich knowledge of the world of sex. Speaking anonymously, she's a woman who's worked with senior citizens in nursing homes, teenagers, transitional youth, BDSM practitioners, asexuals, and elementary school kids to teach them the ins and outs of safe and pleasurable sex. Having been raised in a abstinence-only curriculum, SecksYoda says we're currently living in a "sex-backwards culture." Here's a few tips from a woman who has literally heard everything. Read more
Monday, March 3, 2014
Use these emotion-driven sex positions to go from "oh" to "ooooh" - no matter what your mood.
You already tailor your sex positions to hit your pleasure spots, but you can crank up the heat even more by matching your moves to your mood. Use these emotion-driven pairings to go from "oh" to "ooooh"—no matter how you're feeling. Read more
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
For some women, size really does matter, says Kate Hakala..
In the 1920s, Princess Marie Bonaparte (yes, the great-grandniece of that guy) surgically moved her clitoris closer to her vagina. She had studied the vaginas of over two hundred women and concluded that the farther your clit was from your vagina, the less likely you were to ever have those earth-shattering, toe-curling orgasms she had heard so much about from contemporaries like Sigmund Freud. Her surgery failed miserably, but Bonaparte's theory about the far-away clit may have been accurate. Read more
Thursday, February 20, 2014
Thursday, February 13, 2014
Although oral sex is the easiest way for many women to orgasm, others are too anxious to relax and enjoy it. Sex therapist Sharon Gilchrest O'Neill has some tips to enjoy receiving oral sex.
Receiving oral sex is pretty much the best thing ever. But between worrying about how you taste and what he's seeing down there, sometimes…it’s hard to relax and just go with it. We asked sex therapist Sharon Gilchrest O’Neill, author of A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage, for tips on how to just enjoy it already. Read more
Tuesday, February 4, 2014
Caroline Perkins provides a comprehensive guide to what to eat and what not to eat to enhance or destroy the mood before sex.
It has long been a theory of mine that the amount of nachos you eat per day has a direct positive correlation to how good you are at sex stuff. "Did you just make that up because you like nachos?", you might ask. "No, I read it in a book somewhere," I would reply. "You're being crazy."
In what came as a slap in the face to the fried-food loving community, Elite Daily recently published a list of foods you should avoid if you want a better sex life. The list systematically details all of the most delicious foods ever created but apparently, "Eating these types of foods raises the blood glucose level, which leads to fatigue, tiredness and a lower sex drive." Here's a lineup of your favorite mood-killers: Read more